This is one of my favorite memories of my dad - he retired from the military when I was 12 and after that life became too difficult and frustrating for him - this is a picture when he was in his prime - he loved his country and he loved my mom and us. What more could one ask for?

Anyone can be a father, it takes someone special to be a dad!

My dad passed away 35 years ago, but today I am still thinking of the wonderful things he taught me and I wanted to share them with you today on Father's Day:

1. Education does not make you smart, but you'd better get one anyway.
2. If you need a shirt, I will give you the one off my back.
3. You shouldn't say bad words around ladies, except your wife and daughters - then, oh well....
4. If you say another damn swear word, I will beat your ass.
5. Even though I don't say I love you, you can see and feel it through my eyes.
6. One job may not be enough - 2 is good, and then there are those who need to work even more.
7. If you don't have money, there is always someone ready to lend you some.
8. Payday is celebration day. But a cowboy hat. Then pay the bills.
9. Sometimes it's just better to wile away the time in the garage - alone.
10. When in doubt, ask your mother.

Daddy, I love you!

I love you, Aunt Miyuki!

Her name is Miyuki Shiraza Bojescul. She came into our family when I was seven years old. I thought she was exquisitely beautiful and I loved being around her. And she loved me! Oh, how she loved me! She thought I was prettier than Miss America. My mom, my sister, and Aunt Miyuki and I would all sit around and watch the MA pageant annually. She would pincurl our hair and we would all watch and root for our choice. At the end, inevitably Aunt Miyuki would say, "Oh, Biyota more beautiful." I seriously doubt that I was, but in my dear aunt's eyes, I was wonderful. Even when I had kids, she said they were the best children ever. She was always so supportive. I am glad she died in her sleep, or so I've been told. I'm glad she is at peace now. Chemo can't be all that fun. Now she can watch the MAP with Mama and maybe even have a glass of wine....Love you so much, my beautiful auntie. You taught me about self-control, acceptance, love, and so much more. Expecially about love.....I shall miss you - no more phone calls to see how you are doing and hearing that lovely melodic voice of yours. I am sad for me, but glad for you! Take care, honey....